tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2489587928602873445.post7510762665831475009..comments2023-09-26T07:46:45.785-04:00Comments on I Look Good Today: From Where I Sit: Let's Talk About Sex Baby!Jamiehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03948392561916449780noreply@blogger.comBlogger7125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2489587928602873445.post-3319869235937163292011-09-29T15:08:30.686-04:002011-09-29T15:08:30.686-04:00Awesome questions Ruth! I will be happy to answer ...Awesome questions Ruth! I will be happy to answer those in some upcoming posts :) Thanks for asking!Jamiehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03948392561916449780noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2489587928602873445.post-62413845965692390152011-09-29T14:54:36.403-04:002011-09-29T14:54:36.403-04:00Okay, Jamie, my question is:
Did you ever feel l...Okay, Jamie, my question is: <br /><br />Did you ever feel like your disability might prevent you from having a job and getting married and all those kinds of life goals?Ruth Madisonhttp://www.ruthmadison.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2489587928602873445.post-24185629983047730552011-09-28T10:51:27.023-04:002011-09-28T10:51:27.023-04:00Never thought of disabled people having sex? Wow, ...Never thought of disabled people having sex? Wow, that surprises me. They are people. They have the same desires and interests as any other people. <br /><br />I personally define sex in a much broader sense than just intercourse, but I know not everyone does. I have yet to learn of any case where a person was not capable of having full intercourse, but in the case where he or she can't feel it, they may prefer other kinds of closeness and sexual energy.<br /><br />My personal opinion is that oral sex is called oral sex because it is sex, as an example.Ruth Madisonhttp://www.ruthmadison.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2489587928602873445.post-70140324520902272292011-09-28T10:17:20.211-04:002011-09-28T10:17:20.211-04:00I'm glad you all enjoyed the first installment...I'm glad you all enjoyed the first installment of From Where I Sit. Please continue to comment or ask a new question. I love hearing from you.Jamiehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03948392561916449780noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2489587928602873445.post-26751661384692187522011-09-27T20:40:35.491-04:002011-09-27T20:40:35.491-04:00I love how candid you are in your blog! It is int...I love how candid you are in your blog! It is interesting to see the differences in how people have sex and their sexual experiences. I'm glad that you guys have found what works for you. While sex implies intercourse, everyone has their "thing" that they enjoy doing outside of actual sex - kissing, touching, etc. <br /><br />http://www.glamkittenslitterbox.com/<br />Twitter: @GlamKitten88Bonniehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04872576992263682398noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2489587928602873445.post-60601927207794836202011-09-27T14:36:09.601-04:002011-09-27T14:36:09.601-04:00I have something of my own to share. I gave a lift...I have something of my own to share. I gave a lift to a disabled coworker b/c her bus was running late. UPS left a rather large box at her door and I brought it in for her. I passed her bedroom (the door was open) and I saw this contraption hanging from the ceiling. I did a double take and saw that it was a pleasure swing. The kind you see in those sex catalogs. My coworker noticed my curiosity and called me on it. She said (rather matter of factly, I might add) that is how she and her boyfriend have sex. I admit the thought of disabled people having sex was foreign to me. I never thought of them in that sense. And Ruth, I have to disagree with you. Sex implies intercourse. Getting naked and touching is just foreplay.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2489587928602873445.post-64509484899731073262011-09-27T11:49:50.519-04:002011-09-27T11:49:50.519-04:00I would add too that for complete spinal cord inju...I would add too that for complete spinal cord injuries, even for people who can't feel or move that area of their bodies, there are solutions.<br /><br />SCI women can get pregnant and have babies. SCI men can get hard either through direct touch or through medication. <br /><br />Great point that sex doesn't always have to mean just intercourse! Just being naked and close to someone is such a wonderful experience. Human touch is a great thing.<br /><br />I don't think there is *anyone* who is too physically disabled to have sex.Ruth Madisonhttp://www.ruthmadison.comnoreply@blogger.com